This is where I need your input...
I am happy with two children. I don't plan to have anymore. I asked my doctor about having my "tubes tied." He was against this procedure, saying I am too young. He gave me other options to think about - one being "Mirena" which I believe is an IUD. It is placed in your uterus for up to 5 years. I really don't want to go back on the pill. I've been on the pill for 10+ years. Plus, I am bad about remembering to take the pill. According to my doctor, Mirena is very safe - opposed to IUDs used in the 70s and 80s. Does anyone have any thoughts on this type of birth control? Suggestions are welcome.
PS - I'm still in negotiations with Kevin about having a vasectomy. So far, it's not going so well.
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Amanda had this to say:
I too wanted to get the tubes tied, but that was only if I had to have a c-section with this birth. I don't want to be on the pill for the next 20 years. My husband was not too keen on the whole "snip-job" for him, but I think he is warming up to the idea since we are so done with 2 kids! I heard that Seasoneal (spelling??) pill is good- only 4 periods a year.
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Not sure I can help you much with this one. But, anyone know when you can go back on the pill after giving birth? Does breastfeeding make a difference?
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NaeNae had this to say:
Kelly - Your doctor will probably talk to you about going back on the pill at your next appointment. I'm no expert on breastfeeding, but I've heard it does NOT keep you from getting pregnant.
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Mandy had this to say:
Don't quote me on this, but I *think* that breastfeeding/right after the birth (within 6 weeks) is when you are MOST fertile. NaeNae, I have the Mirena and LOVE it. I had it put in ~12 weeks after I had Issa. Pros - NEVER think of BControl, pay one fee and that's it (it's up to your insurance - mine was a $15 copay and that's IT!), Never think of BC again (oh yeah I said that), VERY low side effects. Cons - intermittent spotting for ~3 months. SO intermittent though, that you consider having it removed at 2.5 months. It's so worth it though - I have a regular cycle and don't think twice about birth control. We also considered the ring, but this is so "permanent" without being permanent. Icould be a spokesperson for Mirena - email me at mandyallbrittonATcarolinaDOTrrDOTcom. Chances for pregnancy are just as low as with other types - LOVE it!
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Nae, the doctor put me on Depo Vera shots after I had Shelly. You get a shot every 3 months. The only thing is it screws your cycle up every month. It may be months before you have a period and some women have a period 2 weeks out of every month.
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I would be cautious about the IUD. I haven't heard anything about it though.
Breastfeeding definitely does NOT keep you from getting pregnant- it actually increases your chances! Be careful!
I know for a fact my hubby wouldn't go for the vasectomy. I would try the shots.
I always agree with the doctors about the tubes tied idea-- what if (God forbid) something were to happen to my husband and I got remarried and decided I wanted to have another baby with that person?
Anyway, just research and make sure whatever you do is healthy! I can't blame you for not wanting to do the pill though!- 10:11 AM
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skip the birth control for you! tell kevin it time to do his part! he may resist at first but you must perservere. Aaron had the snip almost three years ago and even he say it was no big deal. so just relax, tell kevin it no big deal give him so time to process and make the appointment. just make sure the dr. is well qualified and been at this a while.
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soapbox.SUPERSTAR had this to say:
Okay! I am done too and my doctor said the same thing to me.
He did an excellent job of explaining the Mirena IUD to me and I chose to go with that.
I had to get the Depo Vera shot first, because I had to have some treatments done for cancerous cells and they did not want to put the IUD in until after the treatments. The DEPO shot SUCKED!!! I bled non-stop. It never went regular for me?
When I got the IUD, getting it "installed" took like one minute, it was covered by my insurance and I have had no side effects. I love not taking the pill and not having to worry about anything. The IUD mirrors what happens when you have your tubes tied, without having to tie your tubes. It lasts 5 years - which is awesome - it is cheap and long lasting.
My periods have become almost non-existent - to the point that I rarely have to use a tampon (and yes, you can use tampons with the IUD). Some months I do not have one and when I do, it is VERY light and lasts like 3 days - if that. I would definitely recommend the IUD.- 9:11 AM
